** Life In A Post

Christmas is coming! Can't believe I've been ignoring this blog for sooooo long. Well, currently I'm home and can't wait for the Hong Kong trip in two weeks time! Get to spend some quality time with my mama. Ooooh! I bought a dslr and am so excited to learn more about it. :)

Anyway, the reason I wanna blog is because there is something in my head that I wanna say it out but I feel weird if i talk about it to my brother or my parents. BUT! If they accidentaly came across my blog and saw this, well hello mama and daddy and broda! :)

So! I've been talking with my friends how parents should not have an arguement or fight in front of their children. It is a bad influence and parents, it won't help in disciplining your children too. Think about it. You fight or argue, the children observe, the children are scared and apparently, the children become afraid of you, parents. Once is a;ready very enough to allow that negativity stays in the mind of that particular child. Think of the amount of pressure the child has to carry when he's talking to you, parents and what pressure is that? The fear of parents might snap out of their good mood and begin hitting or yelling at the child. And the outcome of it? The child will feel reluctant to even express their feelings to the parents.

Quote of the day: Arguements and fights cannot solve the problem.